Comparing and contrasting is useful to make a decision. It gives you distinct similarities and differences between two topics, and is usually straightforward.
The essay I chose to write about is comparing and contrasting arranged marriages vs. marriages from love.
I'm not too sure that I agree with Sapra. I felt like she focused too much on how great arranged marriages were, and not enough on marriages based on love. I understand that she supports arranged marriage, but telling me how great it is instead of explaining all the points of each topic doesn't convince me. On page 289 of "I'm Happy with an Arranged Marriage", Sapra gives a few examples of women who are happy with their arranged marriages. The point that stood out to me the most was that they were all happy with children. I think the main reason why I don't agree with arranged marriage is because you are strongly encouraged to live up to your family's expectations. From what Sapra wrote, I know that a woman has to marry a wealthier man and have children. I believe in the phrase, "follow your heart." A lot of couples do not want children, and some are just not able to. I enjoy seeing people travel with their loves and live in the moment, not worrying if their families approve or not. If you have to spend the rest of your life with someone, I think you should be able to choose. Your family is not getting married, you are. Although I do not agree that arranged marriages are the better option, Sapra does bring up valid points. She stresses the importance of family during the process of choosing a husband. Even people who are on their own choosing their spouses ask their families for advice. Your family just wants what is best for you in the long run.
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